Sunday, June 10, 2012

Mordy's first weekend at home

Mordy came home from the rehab hospital Friday afternoon and immediately went to sleep.  He woke up for Shabbat dinner with our boys and his parents (compliments of the Orchid restaurant!) and then went back to sleep. He was just so tired!  But we were very happy to have him home with us.  He and I gave the traditional blessing to our children at dinner, as we do each Friday night, and he read to them at night before bedtime, as he used to do each night before the stroke.

Saturday was sleepy, too.  Mordy slept a huge amount, and when he was awake, he had some trouble seeing.  The double vision and vertigo had returned.  But after a long afternoon nap, he felt much better and after Shabbat we got to watch the two episodes of Mad Men that we had missed while he was in the hospital.  Now we're all caught up for tonight's (Sunday night's) season finale!

Late at night, when I and most normal people are getting ready for bed, Mordy decided Saturday night, for the first time since the stroke, to have a late night snack.  This was a wonderful thing, because before the stroke, Mordy would always have a late night snack.  It is delightful to see him returning to old habits.

Today was a much better day. Mordy was awake much more of the day and the double vision and vertigo had significantly lessened.  He felt much better throughout the day, though he still has been taking it easy and napping occasionally.  At one point, Sammy, Mordy and I went out for a short walk for a few blocks in the neighborhood.  He used the cane part of the time, and walked without it part of the time.  It seems that walking without the cane is better for him, even though he's not 100% steady in his gait, because using the cane required so much coordination and concentration that it made walking harder for him. Going up and down stairs was not difficult at all.  I'm sure he'll continue to work on walking and using stairs as he goes to physical therapy later this week.

Overall, Mordy describes his experiences as similar to the sensation of being drunk.  He can't get his legs to walk properly, and his gait is slightly off.  At times the world is spinning, even when he is sitting still.  He is cognizant and aware of everything around him, but he just wants to go to sleep.

Since yesterday when he slept most of the day, to today when he was awake and had less vertigo and double vision, I am encouraged that he's getting better.  Obviously, the transition from the rehab hospital to home wore Mordy out.  But since he's resting so much, he's continuing to improve.  I hope that will continue to be the case.

10 comments:

  1. Thinking of you, glad Mordy is home, sending lots of love.

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  2. Esther,
    I wanted you to know that Justin and I are thinking of you both and davening for Mordy's full recovery. I wanted to offer ny services -- I recently tried out a website called LotsaHelpingHands. We used it for arranging shiva meals. I think it might be useful for you;you can post needs, like rides or playmates for the kids, specific meals, rides to rehab, and people whose email addresses you have entered can sign up for the slots you have identified. I'd be happy to help ( or to get one of my teenagers to help) enter emails and tasks. If you'd like to try it, please be in touch and we can look at it together. Or I can do it. Whatever works for you.
    Susan Hornstein. susanhornstein@yahoo.com

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  3. Esther,

    Mordy and your kids are blessed to have you. You were always and always will be such a wonderful person to be around.

    I am sure you are learning a lot about yourself through this difficult experience and you will use every bit of it for the benefit of your family and your students.

    Kol hakavod. We are davening for Mordy to have a complete recovery.

    Ben

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  4. Esther:

    Amy and I just found out about Mordy and you are both in our thoughts in prayers. I know that people will often say "call me if you need anything," and that it's really strange in these situations...since you probably don't know exactly know what you need, and what you may want is not anything people can exactly give you...but with all sincerity, we're only 40 minutes away, and so we're happy any time to just come by when Mordy begins to feel up to it so he can talk about Crossfit with Amy, take the kids out for pizza one night to give you a break at home, etc.

    We'll be in touch,

    Dan

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  5. We're thrilled to know that Mordy is finally home and is getting better.
    L'shalom,
    Michele and Joel

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  6. Esther,

    Thank you for the update. We are so glad he is slowly improving, especialyl getting back to his old habits. Please let us know if you want us to take Jonah this week or anything else.

    B'shalom,

    Natalie

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  7. I was going to help you instead youve helped me
    Thank you!

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  8. Just checking in again to see how you guys are doing. I'm glad Mordy is continuing to improve and is home with you and the boys.

    Love, Motek

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  9. Dear Mordy and Rabbi Reed,

    Martin and I think about you guys every day!! It's worth repeating how the both of you have taught us the power of prayer. We think about Mordy and pray for Mordy's continued recovery.

    It's wonderful to hear that Mordy is home, improving, nourished by food and by love of family and friends. We look forward to hearing even more good news from the Reed/Schwartz home.

    Love,
    Martin and Elianna Goldman (and Aaron, too!)

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  10. So glad to read about Mordy's improvements! We are thinking of you all often. Please tell Mordy anytime he is out walking in the neighborhood, he is more than welcome to rest on our front porch. The Bilton's

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